When Kindergarten Comes Knocking: Big Feelings and Finding Your People

I still remember the night before my oldest started kindergarten. I sat on the edge of the bed, carefully labeling each tiny crayon and lunchbox compartment, tears blurring the Sharpie tip. It wasn't just about sending my baby off to learn the ABCs—it felt like the end of an era. One chapter closing, a new (and slightly scary) one beginning.

If you’re a mom staring down that same bittersweet milestone, I want you to know: you're not alone. Starting kindergarten is a big deal—for our kids and for us.

The Mix of Emotions Is Real

There’s pride. Your little one is growing up, stepping into a whole new world.
There’s worry. Will they make friends? Will they eat lunch? Will they miss you?
There’s sadness. The days of slow mornings, messy crafts, and midday cuddles are shifting.
And yes, there’s also a bit of excitement—because deep down, you know they’re ready. Even if you’re not.

These feelings can hit all at once or creep in slowly as the first day approaches. Give yourself permission to feel them all. It’s okay to cry in the carpool line. It’s okay to cheer when the house is quiet. It’s okay to do both on the same day.

Why Mom Friends Matter More Than Ever

As your child starts this new journey, so are you. Kindergarten isn’t just a transition for kids—it’s a new season for moms too. And like every season, it’s better when you’re not doing it alone.

Having mom friends who “get it” can make all the difference. The ones who don’t flinch when you text “Did your kid cry this morning too?” The ones who grab coffee after drop-off or share a Pinterest lunch idea that actually works. The ones who remind you that you’re doing great, even on the days you feel like you’re not.

The Mississippi Mom Is Here to Help

If you’re in Mississippi——The Mississippi Mom is a space built just for you. Whether you’re looking for encouragement, resources, fun things to do with your kids, or just a reminder that you’re not walking this road alone, this community has your back.

We share the honest moments, the sweet ones, and the messy middle. Because we believe in motherhood done together. And that the best way to survive (and thrive in) kindergarten season is to lean on each other.

So here’s to the tearful drop-offs, the first-day photos, the new routines, and the moms holding it all together.

You’ve got this—and we’ve got you.